Support needed: My spouse is struggling to understand
This is hard to write, but I need some advice. My spouse never served, and lately there's been a disconnect. They don't understand why certain things trigger me, why I need my routines, why I sometimes need to be alone. I love them, and they love me. But there's this gap that's hard to bridge. Looking for advice: - How do you explain military experiences to someone who hasn't lived it? - Any resources for spouses to understand veteran issues? - Tips for couples working through this together? - How do you balance being open vs. protecting them from the hard stuff? I know other military couples have navigated this. What worked for you?